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Unsocial Media

10/31/2015

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The telly was on, but it was more like moving wallpaper than anything. There were four of us in the lounge.

So were we deep in conversation? Course we weren’t – we all had our phones in our hands. My wife was playing an online word game with some random stranger. I was answering a journalist’s questions about In Shadows Waiting, via email. My daughter was on Facebook. Our friend was….. well, you get the picture.  Unsocial media reigning supreme!

MSN was probably the first step in how modern communication has evolved – who remembers that, eh? My kids were always on it, using the old fashioned desktop computer. Nowadays there’s a plethora of communication channels, such as Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Flickr, Tumblr, Pinterest and Instagram. But it’s not just those channels that have affected how we get in touch with each other. It’s the medium too – smart phones and tablets.

That combination of channel and medium has changed the civilised world (and don’t say into an uncivilised world, although you’d have no argument from me on that score).

I readily accept that many aspects of social media are used for good. It can be a tremendous boon for many, keeping families in touch from one side of the globe to the other. It can even be a lifeline, re-igniting hope and confidence for those suffering from mental illnesses, for example.

But as there is light, so is there dark. I have seen how social media is used by online trolls for bullying and harassment. I think you already know my views on that…my outrage at those keyboard cowards led to me setting up an anti-online bullying campaign, and writing my acclaimed short story The Twitter Bully, which has just been re-released in a new anthology, containing the works of almost 50 authors.   
    
 Oh…and by the way, the subject for this column was suggested by two people I have never met in the real world. Thank you to my Twitter friends @_SeaofCowards and @Waitingirl13 for tweeting the idea to me.

1 Comment
Catherine
11/20/2019 07:25:24 am

Social Media, in a sense has taken over from peoples wanting to make the effort to speak face to face. What started of as a luxury in peoples homes and lives has now become a necessity in the average persons life style. However many are true genuine people in flesh to their on line plasona they project.
Social media has opened doors for people to stay in touch, instead of being isolated, however in noway should substitute human contact. Pretty words can be dressed well liken to Xmas present on line, then you trust, and open that box to learn its empty box that's dressed well for making pure impressions.
Trolls are usually people who dont have the courage to walk outside and say to people what they think, suppressed people that sit in a small room, and that's their world

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    He lives with his wife, Sue, in Leicestershire in the UK, and has two children, Christopher and Charlotte, and a budgie called Bertie.

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